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19/11/2008 - Breasts - Know the Moves

Breasts are like snowflakes. Every one is unique. Know the right moves, though, and you'll have her melting in your arms.

Large Breasts
In a study conducted at the University of Vienna, researchers found that large breasts were about 24 percent less sensitive than small ones. "This is probably because the nerve that transmits sensation from the nipple is stretched," says Alan Matarasso, M.D., a plastic surgeon in New York City. Stimulate the outer sides of her breasts, just below the armpits, with your tongue or fingertips. Make flipping motions with your tongue and even experiment with light nibbling.

Small Breasts
They're sensitive, but they can handle more motion because of their size. Use your palms to cup and gently bounce her breasts during sex.

Droopy Breasts
Droopy breasts can be the least sensitive--not only are the nerves stretched, but they're compressed by the breasts' weight. Have her lie on her back; it'll cause her breasts to shift up and out, relieving the tension on the nerves and helping her focus on the pleasure.

Surgically Enhanced Breasts
If done properly, implants won't interfere with sensation. But they will move differently. Concentrate on the surface of her breasts. Use your tongue to make circles that gradually spiral in toward the nipples.

New-Mom Breasts
Her nipples will be tender, so focus on the breasts' undersides, which are frequently neglected. Gently cup and support her breasts. It'll feel nice to her after a long day of suckling.

Nipples
These handy barometers of desire are simple to read: Up is "on," down is "off." But they're also thermometers, popping up when the weather's cold, like giant goose bumps. The nipples are important -- in fact, for some women, you can induce an orgasm just by doing breast duty. But the sensitivity of nipples varies widely; handle with care.

Large:
Because they have more nerve endings, big nipples are often hypersensitive, so don't be too aggressive when applying pressure, Dr. Matarasso says.
Small:
The areola--the dark-colored circle that surrounds the nipple--is actually more sensitive than the nipple itself. Focus especially on the upper quadrant of her breast, between 10 and 2 o'clock. It's the most sensitive part of the bull's-eye.
Inverted:
One study has shown that 3 percent of women have innies. The cause: genetics. The nerve endings in breasts with inverted nipples are no different from those of any other nipples. "Often, women with inverted nipples may be more sensitive emotionally because they may feel that their nipples aren't normal," says Shirley Zussman, Ed.D., a sex therapist in New York City. Reassure her with compliments about her breasts. You can lure the nipples out if you're persistent with touching, kissing, licking, and gentle sucking.

15/11/2008 - The Perils of Porn Delusion

Okay, I admit it. I've read a lot of romance novels in my life. And not when I was a teenager, mind you. No, in my teens I was waaaay too intellectual for that sort of thing.
I started reading romances when A and I decided to take a stab at writing them. (I won't go into the details right now, but, it turns out Harlequin Mills and Boon is quite a tough nut to crack.) Anyway, after reading a fair amount of romances – and with a fair amount I mean roughly three gazillion – I got kind of into it.

You know, the plucky Everywoman, the rugged alpha billionaire, some conflict, a huge dollop of sexual tension, a few steamy sex scenes, a happy ending and Bob's your uncle. If this is done by a talented author, really, what's not to like?

(For the record: read a bad author and the experience closely resembles gargling with thumbtacks and substandard ethanol.)

The only problem was this: after reading all those romances, I began feeling somewhat disgruntled with the state of my love life. Why did my boyfriend never throw me over his shoulder and carry me to the bedroom as if I weighed almost nothing? And why did my heart not grow faint with desire every time his arm accidentally brushed against my breast? And why were we not forever having languorous sex in the warm waters of the Aegean or on the thick velvety carpet of some luxurious penthouse suite?

Fortunately, before I did anything drastic, my writing partner diagnosed me as suffering from that all too common modern malady: Porn Delusion.

You see, the romance novel is pure fantasy. It's porn for women. And in the same way that real porn gives men a somewhat skewed idea of women, romance might misrepresent the not-so-fair sex just a tad.

In males, Porn Delusion generally manifests when they see a pair of real boobs for the first time. "Why are they, like... flopping to the side?" one hapless young man once asked me when I relaxed onto my back, convinced that I was deformed in some way. After all, Jenna Jameson's boobies jutted straight upwards, no matter what position she was in! Another guy once admitted that he was always a little disappointed when his blonde bank manager didn't suck suggestively on her pen before inviting him to close the door.

Oh, how I laughed.

But for women Porn Delusion manifests in an even more insidious way: we expect men to be like Mr. Darcy (although Laurie prefers Mr. Bingley – I know – weird), only to find that most of them are really more like those dudes from Jackass.

You must know the sense of exasperation I'm talking about. Would Aragorn ever spend the weekend drinking beer and playing X-box? I don't think so! And why do all those M&B billionaires have so much energy, while one measly little tough day at work causes my husband to fall asleep during Survivor? It's all so unfair!

What is unfair, I realised once I understood the perils of Porn Delusion, are the ridiculous expectations we burden one another with.

So tonight I'm going home to a real man – one who laughs, cries, argues, gets scared, sulks, cracks jokes and, miraculously, loves me for exactly who I am. If he can handle my boobs going south, I guess I can learn to live with the X-box.

13/11/2008 - Stress reduced by physical affection

Couples who hug, kiss and otherwise find ways to get close every day may have fewer stress hormones coursing through their bodies, a new study suggests.
The findings, reported in the journal Psychosomatic Medicine, point to one potential reason that close relationships - and marriage, in particular - have been linked to better health.

Researchers found that among 51 German couples they followed for one week, those who reported more physical contact during a given day - whether it was sexual intercourse or just holding hands - generally had lower levels of the "stress" hormone cortisol.

This was especially true of couples who reported more problems at work, suggesting that some physical affection between mates may be a buffer against work stress.

Stress reduced by physical affection
Many studies have suggested that chronic stress may have widespread effects in the body, from dampening the immune system response to contributing to heart disease. Meanwhile, other research has found that married people - at least those in happy unions - tend to be in better health and live longer lives.

It's possible that the reduced stress response seen with physical affection helps to explain that link, according to Dr Beate Ditzen of the University of Zurich in Switzerland, the study's lead researcher.

Ditzen and her colleagues recruited 51 working couples who were living together, most of whom were married. Over one week, participants kept detailed records of their daily activities, including instances of physical affection with their partner, and collected saliva samples so that the researchers could measure the daily fluctuations in cortisol levels.

The couples also recorded their mood at various points of each day - either positive ("good, relaxed, alert") or negative ("bad, tired, fidgety"). In general, the researchers found, the more physical affection couples reported in a given day, the lower their cortisol levels.

Intimacy also boosted moods
Importantly, Ditzen noted, the results suggest that intimacy worked its magic by boosting study participants' mood. She said she would not recommend that couples "express more intimacy, per se," but instead they should find activities that create positive feelings for both partners.

For couples who do want to fire up their physical intimacy, though, there is a range of ways to do it, according to Ditzen. She pointed out that "intimacy" meant different things to different couples in the study; to some it was sex, to some it was an affectionate touch.

"This means that there is no specific behavior that couples should show in everyday life," Ditzen said. "Rather, all kinds of behaviour which couples themselves would consider intimate...might be beneficial." – (Reuters Health, November 2008)

05/11/2008 - Does Penis Size Really Matters

There is no difference between theory and practice. This is true in theory but not in practice. Which is why writing an article on penis size sounded fun in theory.
Ha.

Not so much in practice. You see, despite the myriad lame double entendre opportunities this topic presents, it remains somewhat of a minefield for any writer to explore. Especially a female one at that. Penis size is, after all, one of the biggest (you see?) weapons in the war-of-the-sexes arsenal.

Scenario: man and woman break up, insults are flung about, emotions run high and feelings are hurt. Woman, over cocktails with the girls, says: "Good riddance," and does the little pinky wag, an expression of pretend-pity on her face but eyes alight with bitchy glee. Seen it before? Of course. Below the belt? (there I go again!) You bet. Unfair? Mmmm. Not necessarily. Because size does matter.

But how big (sorry) an influence does it really have?

The Authentic Women's Penis Chart
Recently we stumbled across something online called The Authentic Women's Penis Size Preference Chart (and before you ask, someone sent it to us, okay? Contrary to what some of you believe we at women24 do not spend our time surfing the Internet for stuff relating to male genitalia. Well, not all our time anyway.) Anyway, according to this chart the ideal size is from 17,78cm to 20,9cm in length with about a 15cm circumference. Rather specific isn’t it? But although none of us had a ruler close by it sounded about right.

And then it struck me. The ideal penis has a specific measurement? Surely only in a world where all vaginas are identical? And while I've heard that there really is something like too big or too small a man is surely more than his member? What about sexual tension? And being in love? And foreplay and clever tricks and techniques? With growing concern (okay, I'll stop!) I spoke to our resident sexologist, Dr Eve and to sensuality expert Marina Green to hear what they had to say on this issue.

The expert's take...
First off, Marina said it's important not to judge a penis on it's flaccid state. There are a lot of guys out there with underwhelming penises. Until it grows that is. Similarly, a lot of long johns don't improve that much when the excitement escalates. So don't judge a book by its cover.

Dr Eve says that while she supports the voice that women have regarding sexual matters, we need to remember that men can do nothing effective and safe about their size. "He has what he has for life. Women, on the other hand can do lots to tighten their vaginal muscles – Kegel exercises, smartballs... and these DO work."

"Oh gosh!" you cry, "More exercises! And if it's his problem, why do I have to alter ME?"

Well, two things. One – are you so sure your vag isn't a little wellie-top like? And two – not tightening up is kinda cutting off your nose to spite your face. If the man you love is on the small side, a few pelvic squeezes beats having unsatisfactory sex for the rest of your life.

Dr Eve also points out that some positions are more suited to the less- or over-endowed. Experiment together for the most satisfying ones.

And finally she says "I believe a woman's dissatisfaction is more about what he's not doing with the rest of his anatomy. Not giving her clitoris and other erogenous zones attention is a much greater flaw in a lover than a small penis. Forget the vagina guys – focus on her whole body and really linger longer around her clitoral area – she won't really notice your size as she will be gasping for air from clitoral orgasms!"

Article courtesy of http://www.women24.com

31/10/2008 - Stop an Affair before it Starts

Personally, I think there are no excuses for cheating, but as I have heard many males always say: "it's in our genetic make-up to be polygamous." I guess nowadays, that goes for women too.

Now while some complain that cheating includes chatting online and others think that simply becoming close to someone on a mental level is betrayal, for the sake of argument I'm going to stick to the good old definition -- having sex with someone besides your significant other without his/her consent.

If you are in a great relationship and want to ensure that your man or woman, whether she's your wife or simply your girlfriend, doesn't stray into another man's arms, then make sure that you don't commit any of the following.

Levels of Cheating

Before I delve into all the things that may lead your man or woman to find another, however, keep in mind that there are some men and women who are just selfish and cheat in a serial fashion because they can. And if your current significant other has openly admitted that they cheated on all their partners before you, perhaps the 'partners' were not the problem.

You stopped giving her attention

Problem: If there's one thing I can surely admit, being a woman and all, it's that the female condition makes compliments mandatory, especially when change is involved. If she went from a long haired blonde to a short haired brunette and you didn't even notice, then perhaps Johnny from the block will be willing to comment on her hair in great detail.

Solution: Your ability to pay attention to detail must be honed in a relationship and there's no better time than the present to do so. Even if there is no change in her appearance, telling her you think she's hot (even saying it like that) can make all the difference in her day and your romantic relationship.

And when it comes to sex, if you're always doing the same thing over and over again, chances are she will long for some intrigue and mystique in the bedroom. The element of surprise is a wondrous and marvelous thing... you don't have to dress up like Batman, but giving her a soft, wet kiss and spanking her on occasion may just spice things up a bit.

Lack / fear of intimacy

Problem: If she's thinking of walking down the aisle with you but you want nothing more than occasional sleepovers, sex included, then chances are she might start roaming for a new candidate. Of course, on the minute occasion that you're pressuring her into marriage, again, she may seek the comfort of a casual acquaintance.

Solution: Communicate. Be honest about where you stand and if you notice that the two of you aren't on the same level when it comes to commitment, be honest with yourselves and come to a realistic conclusion.

You change drastically

Problem: You used to be nicer, now everything seems to irritate you. You used to have a six-pack, now all you do is drink them. You get lazy, you stop trying to impress her and you no longer take care of yourself. Suddenly, the mailroom guy is looking mighty hot...

Solution: Don't let yourself go. Given you are allowed a modicum of comfort in a relationship, that shouldn't entail a mundane life of Cheetos and beer by the plasma TV. Keep yourself fit, take care of yourself and when it comes to changes in your lifestyle, keep them positive.

Someone's giving her more attention

Problem: If you've ever seen the recent movie Unfaithful, you'd know that sometimes women cheat simply because something tempting comes along. Maybe she's bored, maybe she happens to bump into "Mr. Perfect," whatever the case, sometimes timing is everything.

Solution: Her sense of adventure is restless and starts hunting for excitement. When it comes to a solution, this is a difficult one to resolve. I can tell you to keep the communication lines open, but if she told you that she thought about having an affair but didn't act on it because she loves you, how happy would that really make you?

You cheated on her

Problem: I've told thousands of men and women who have been cheated on that perhaps it's best to move on, and if you've ever strayed on your woman, prepare yourself for the worst.

This is not to say that all women who have been cheated on will seek revenge, but most feel as though they have a "Get out of jail free" card in their pocket. And what's more, some feel the need to make you taste your own medicine.

Solution: This one's easy; don't cheat. But in the off chance that you already have, and are certain that you will not do it again, you have to constantly reassure her that you're not up to anything in order to regain her trust. And if you notice that she flirts more often with other guys or starts treating you badly, then perhaps you should consider moving on.

She's just rotten

Problem: Women complain that all men are pigs, but there are a couple of female porkers out there too fellas, and I'm certain you've encountered a few in your heyday. You know, the ones always on the lookout for the BBD (Bigger Better Deal). They're everywhere, and hopefully you're not dating one.

Solution: If you are dating one of these kinds of women, I strongly recommend that you walk away, and if not, then double-bag, my brother, double-bag.

There's no doubt that people in relationships cheat on each other, and if you want to keep your relationship prosperous, then do your best to keep things exciting and easy.

27/10/2008 - What is fetishism?

Fetishism is a paraphilia that focuses on the obsession of an object, and the sexual arousal that seeing or interacting with that object may bring. Some of the more common objects that become a fetish are women’s bras, underpants, shoes, stockings or other items of clothing. Once a fetish for an object has developed, it often becomes a chronic problem.

An individual with a fetish will often masturbate to orgasm while looking at, rubbing, holding or smelling the object, or may request a sexual partner to hold or wear the fetish object during sexual interaction.

In many cases, the fetish object is required by the individual in order to be aroused or to reach orgasm, and is categorised as one of the first symptoms of fetishism. Not having the object may result in a complete loss of sexual drive, and even erectile dysfunction in men.

The use of women’s clothing in cross-dressing, or the use of sex toys that have been designed for genital stimulation such as dildo’s are not regarded as symptoms of fetishism, even though they may play a big part in sexual arousal.

Common fetishes

Foot fetishism
A foot fetishist will become sexually aroused by touching, smelling, tasting, kissing, or handling the feet, ankle or toes of a person, or by having these actions done on their own feet by another person. Some foot fetishists may also enjoy being walked on, or using their feet to manipulate their own, or their partners' genitals, or having their genitals manipulated to orgasm by another person's feet (referred to as a ‘foot job’). Some foot fetishists may just be content with touching or being touched by feet, or in rare cases, being used as a footrest.

In much the same way that a normal person may be aroused when seeing naked genitals, so do foot fetishists become aroused when seeing feet. There are of course, a variety of different foot fetishes, each with their own properties and likes that are not necessarily shared by all foot fetishists. Some may prefer naked feet, while others might prefer dressed feet. Some may favour arched feet, while others may favour flat feet. Some foot fetishists will only be aroused by a specialized scenario, such as a naked foot resting on a table top.

There have been a variety of proposed explanations for the development of a foot fetish. Vilayanur S. Ramachandran suggests the link between feet and sexual arousal is a direct result of the feet sharing the same sensory cortex as the genitals.

Another theory suggests that the foot's shape is distinctly phallic, and can be viewed to replicate the female or male genitals, or the shape of a female body.

A third theory notes that the feet and the genitals are in the same visual window, and when looking at one, the other will be in view as well.

Spandex fetishism
Spandex fetishism is a sexual attraction in fetishists for tight, stretchy fabrics worn by people, or in rare cases to the items of clothing themselves.

Spandex fetishists become sexually aroused when dressed in, or seeing sexual partners dress in tight fabrics, or fantasising about such scenarios. Alternatively, spandex fetishists may create fantasies about the wearers of skin-tight garments such as acrobats, dancers, gymnasts, contortionists, athletes or swimmers.

Spandex fetishism can even expand into re-enacting scenarios from comic books or movies where characters are portrayed wearing spandex costumes. These scenarios usually involve a damsel in distress, a villain, and a super hero that comes to the rescue.

Some extreme cases of spandex fetishism sees the use of a full body suite covering the entire body with material, including the fingers, toes and head. One theory about spandex fetishism is the idea of a ‘second skin’ that clothing gives a person, one that a fetishist either wants to obtain, or wants to remove.

Obscure fetishes

Balloon fetishism
A balloon fetishist becomes aroused when viewing, touching, tasting, or interacting with balloons. This can extend to the material, colour, shape or even sound of a balloon.

Three general categories have been recognised when describing balloon fetishists that include, poppers, semi-poppers, and non-poppers.

Poppers generally do not focus on the balloon itself, but rather on the popping of a balloon, whether self-induced, or done by a sexual partner. The methods of popping may include over-inflating, body pressure (i.e. sitting on a balloon), pricking the balloon with a sharp object, or using teeth or fingernails to pop an inflated balloon.

Semi-poppers do not aim to pop a balloon, but are not unsatisfied if it happens by mistake, and may even find it arousing.

Non-poppers often fear the loud noise of a popping balloon, and are more interested in playing with a balloon, or the aesthetics thereof.

Balloon fetishism is not very well known, but is growing rapidly mainly due to pornographic content on the internet.

Urine fetishism
A urine fetishist involves urine in sexual activities and for sexual pleasure. This paraphilia is also known as urolagnia.

People with urolagnia may find pleasure in urinating in public places, urinating on other people, being urinated upon, or even drinking their own, or someone else’s urine. Others may just prefer to watch these activities. These practices are sometimes referred to as a 'golden shower' or 'watersports'.

Other varieties of urolagnia may include arousal from normal urinary activity, such as wetting the bed, wetting one's pants, or in more extreme cases, a diaper fetish or arousal from infantilism

21/10/2008 - Kissing - Help me Please

Do you not seem to be kissing much anymore? Does kissing seem to have gotten boring? Here's how to be a dream kisser.

Steps
Make sure your lips aren't dry - moistening them (but not too much) makes it easier for your lips to slide over your partner's.
Don't dive straight for the tonsils. Play with their tongue - caress, fondle, wrestle with it. Never bite; you could easily hurt the other person. Unless you know that person happens to like biting.
Let your partner take the lead sometimes and get used to his or her style - and don't be scared of moaning.
Use both the rough and smooth side of your tongue. Your partner will love it.
Use your tongue in the way you want your partner to use his/hers - both of you will naturally do the same.
Make sure you're also using the rest of your body to show how passionate you are!
Don't keep your arms still. Hold the other persons waist, or run your fingers through their hair

Tips
Change Speeds to add a mix and emotion
Make it natural
Breath through your nose!
DONT stress.

Warnings
Don't open your mouth too wide, nobody likes someone trying to eat their face.
Don't windmill your tongue (spinning your tongue in circles)
Don't be robotic! Go with the flow.

20/10/2008 - October Newsletter

We have decided to make a few changes on AdultsSA and shift the focus of the site. When we started AdultsSA we were still hosting our swinger's parties, and a lot of the focus went towards marketing and promoting the parties as a safe and fun way for people to meet and mingle. We tried very hard to find a venue in the Cape to accommodate swingers from there, but with no success, and it was the people from Gauteng and surrounds that benefited the most.

We are no longer involved in organising our own swingers parties at all and have therefore decided to let the site become what it should have been from the beginning - a place for swingers and other adults to meet likeminded people online with a view to meet in person later, a place where you can have your say via the blogs, a place to have your profile and upload your own pictures, a place to chat away in the chat box, and most importantly - a place where we will assist you via events and happenings, as well as information, on enjoying a super adult lifestyle.

AdultsSA is all about people and interactivity. We as the webmasters can only do so much - the rest depends on the members. Too many people have become absorbed in a "feed me by spoon" lifestyle where the only action needed is to swallow information. To be successful online, to achieve your dreams and fantasies, you need to become active. You need to type a message to other people, put your thoughts into a blog, comment on others writings and pictures and share information, wishes and dreams.

Get Active - become a part of the community!!

AdultsSA has over 3500 current members from all over South Africa - couples and singles - and there are a lot of contact information, pictures and details available on the profiles. Use the Search function to find the people close to you look at the latest added Profiles and contact those that interest you, read the Blogs written by others and take the time to comment on them, send us information on parties and happenings in your area. Become an active part of this community and pretty soon you will have such a great social life that you would actually kick yourself for not doing this sooner.

Needed - Moderators, Chatters and Social Organisers

We are looking for people who want to assist us in moderating profiles, keep the chat box alive and busy by welcoming new people and chatting a bit there. We are also looking for people to organise social get-togethers at your local pubs/restaurants/clubs or even to organise a house party and then be able to verify members as being the real deal. If you have any ideas or thoughts on this, or feel you want to become more active in the community, and then please send an e mail to webmistress@adults.co.za

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19/10/2008 - Did I just Squirt?

All women have the capability to squirt. Noticing the "feeling" and relaxation may be what is actually keeping you from doing so.It has been said that women do not ejaculate, that the fluid she passes is urine. It has been proven that although female ejaculate is produced in the urethra, it does not contain any trace of urine. It is colorless, ordorless and does not stain. Being a squirter myself, I have witnessed this colorless,odorless substance and the euphoric sensation it gives me in releasing it. Allow me to share with you the technique that works well in getting me there. Of course, we begin with foreplay. Much clit stimulation and finger insertion to greatly heighten my arousal. We then get into the doggie style position. This position enables him to very slowly massage just the inside of my vagina with his penis. Slow, even, steady strokes. I know that I am getting close to squirting when I feel a very strong urge to urinate. This is where relaxation is key. I relax and my knees buckle as I squirt and float to the clouds. I do not achieve this awesome feeling every time and thus far, only my husband has been able to get me there.

You may be the same way. It may take some practice, some exploration to determine what works best for you. Always empty your bladder before trying. If nothing else, this will ease your mind and help you to relax when you get that urge to urinate. When you do feel this urge, try to relax, not just your mind but your whole body. Do not tense your muscles as we all do when we are having an orgasm. Simply relax and tell yourself..." What the hell, I'm letting go! If I squirt, I squirt. If it's urine, it's urine. Either one will clean up." You will probably discover that you have just encountered your first squirting experience.

Studies have shown evidence of female ejaculation in between 10 and 40% of female orgasms. However, research is being performed under the hypothesis that ejaculation can occur in all (or most) cases (as suggests the article linked in a comment by my colleague Pinkfreud-ga, which I recommend you reading too), but probably most of them in an amount unnoticeable in an area typically humid during sexual intercourse -- thus, those percentages would correspond to those women who do notice their ejaculation. According to some laboratory tests, the fluid coming out during a female ejaculation would be a substance with some similarities to male semen in its composition, produced by the paraurethral glands or Skene's glands, often called "female prostate" for its similitude in placement, structure and, given the discovery of female ejaculation, function, with the male prostate, the responsible of the production of semen. More noticeably in women -- but also in men -- these glands have also a function of sexual stimulation. They are in the basis of the so called "vaginal orgasm" (as opposed to "clitoral orgasm", opposition that is being criticized lately), and are in the physiological structure of the famous G-spot or Gr fenberg spot, the location on the vagina interior wall which would have sensitivity to sexual stimulation. More rigorously, when that area is being rubbed -- either by a penis, finger, etc. -- the glands in touch with it are those that experiment the stimulation. Thus, the female ejaculation is more likely to occur when stimulating the G-spot. The website The-clitoris.com "Dedicated to a Woman's Sexual Pleasure & Health", publishes excellent diagrams on how to stimulate this area and showing all the anatomy above depicted -- actually, you can have more extended explanations of the issue in it -- at their page "The Female Prostate, Female Ejaculation, and The G-Spot"

11/10/2008 - ON A VERY SAD NOTE

It is with great regret..... (from a blog on Z Nights)

It is with deep and great regret that I write this blog. Over the course of the weekend, there was a plane crash outside of Nelspruit that claimed the lives of 9 people, including 4 children aged between 9 and 14. One of the couples on board,were members of this site. Their profile is nawtybutnice, from Bloemfontein. We had the distinct honour of meeting them and their family during a weekend in Bloem about a month and a half ago, and found them to be the most fantastic people you could meet. They opened their home and their hearts to us and our children, and we spent an amazing weekend with them. It is therefore with great shock that I have read about their tragic deaths and that of two of their friends, and the two sets of children belonging to these couples. It is always a sharp, painful realization when you hear of someone you know losing their lives, even more so when these people have touched your life and become a part of it. I ask that the whole of the ZN community hold them close to their hearts and that their thoughts are with the respective families during this incredibly hard time, because,as we know,expectant death is painful, but unexpected can be a soul destroyer...

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